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Why Can't I Ever Seem To Get Ahead?

Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try you just can't get ahead? It is almost like you are attracting new obstacles into your life. The truth is that you just may be. The obstacles in our lives hate the positive, and they are attracted to the negatives.

It is amazing how much I find myself thinking and acting in response to what I perceive as the negatives in my life. This focus always ends up leading to fear, anxiety, and seeing obstacles as bigger than they are.

This isn't what I want. I want to make sure I am living and working from a foundation that assumes the positive. I want to see what is right and good and spring-board from that.

In relationships, it is often said that if you want to find Mr. or Mrs. Right, then you need to not look for them and focus on being them. If you are Mr. or Mrs. Right, then you will attract them. This truth extends way beyond relationships. When we are working hard to find the one right thing, we often get further and further away from ever finding it. We become stuck in a paralyzing position of fear as we look for ways around the obstacles we see. When we focus on our obstacles and weaknesses we tend to naturally gravitate to others' obstacles and weaknesses, and we even attract obstacles and people with similar weaknesses.

Our negative attitude, whether we are aware of it or not, keeps us a victim with a victim's mentality, and this keeps success away. It acts as a repellent. We may even find ourselves not trusting the positive or looking for the flaw in the success we may see around us or in us.

How we talk to ourselves and think about our lives reveals some core beliefs. If it is negative then we create negative emotional power around our goals and desires and we don't realize them. If it is positive then we equally create a positive emotional power around our goals and desires and they come easily.

A great example of this law at work is the radio. At any given moment, wherever you are, there are all kinds of music around you. There is jazz, country, rock, rap, easy listening, and the list goes on. We may not be aware that the music is there but it is. All we have to do to hear it is to get a radio and tune it to the right frequency. Then we will get exactly what we want. However, if we want rock and have the frequency tuned to jazz, we will never get what we want.

When we have a goal or desire for our life or business but project a negative frequency we will never get what we want. In fact we will get what we don't want. We don't get to listen to the music we want, which is right there with us all the time. As a coach you don't want to be trying to help others move forward while you are stuck listening to static, and you don't have to. Find your frequency today and take your business and life to the next level.

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