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Lovemaking Location #4 - The Guest Room

Like most homes, you also probably have a spare room that you and your partner have nicely decorated for guests (in-laws, friends, etc.). And again, like most couples, you probably don't even consider using the guest room yourselves. Well, what if you try and make the guest room your `sex room'?

One time, I read an article that said that actor Matthew McConaughey makes it habit of sleeping in ALL the rooms in his house. And he has no plans or schedules either. When night comes, he simply chooses a different room to sleep in each night.

Now, although you may not like the idea of sleeping 50/50 between your master bedroom and your guestroom(s), you have to admit that having an alternative room for making love does makes things a bit more interesting.

Why? For a lot of couples, even just a tiny change in their sexual routines can unleash a whole new person! Remember that sexual fantasy of making love to a stranger? That's partly the reason why. If you have sex with a stranger than there's no need to repress yourself whatsoever; you're free to do what you want, when you want it, and how rough you want it because hey, you won't see that person again, right?

Anyways, this is why you should consider making love in your guestroom. You never know how that `guest' of yours will behave in there.

How to Transform Your Guest Room into a `Sex Room'

Make sure that your guest room is decorated in such a way that can easily be `simplified' for guests, but also easily `enhanced' for you and your lover. For example, placing a lot scented candles in the room is great and you can easily add more if the room is for you and your partner tonight.

And since this IS your home, feel free to openly put some sexually enticing stuff in there. For instance, put a coat hanger and hang one of her hottest pieces of lingerie in there. (That's easy enough to quickly remove and store away if guests are expected, right?)

Another great idea is to keep a bowl of `sex goodies' in the guest room too. For example, purchase a handful of flavored lubes, edible male genitalia rings, small packets of liquid chocolate, and others. Put all these goodies in a glass bowl to signify that this room is the room for fun games and hot sex. (Of course, store the bowl away if guests are expected.)

Once you've taken care of the ambiance, it's easy to entice you lover to make love in the guest room tonight. Following are some examples.

Tonight, be sure you're the first one to go into the bathroom and bush your teeth, wash your face, etc., before going to bed. While it's your partner's turn to do these rituals, go to the guest room, light the candles, dump ALL your clothes on the floor and spread yourself out on top of the bed. As your partner looks for you, be ready to show her just how `excited' you are as she looks you up and down spread-eagled on the bed.

Say your in your bedroom and your goodnight kiss turns a tad lustful. This time, don't just let things turn their natural course (read: routine). Instead, while passionately kissing her whisper that you're feeling extra horny tonight. This will excite her and she'll find it hard to object as you pick her up (or lead her) to go into the guestroom. Once there, act like a complete `guest' or `stranger' and make love to your woman like never before.

Guests coming over tonight? Then take this opportunity to have a really hot quickie! Just as you guys are preparing the guest room (and preferably just 30 mins before the guests arrive!), engage your lover in sexual banter and foreplay. If she starts to complain about messing up the bed... well, tell her that you guys don't need to lie down for what you have in mind anyway!

It doesn't take a lot to improve the quality of your sex life. Just a little thinking out of the box often does the trick. So tomorrow, start looking at that guest room in a different light.

Enjoy yourselves!

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Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com

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